When Prevention Isn’t the Goal Anymore
There’s a big gap between the advice aimed at prevention and the advice directed towards treatment. Most of us are living somewhere in the middle.
The Unexpected Gift of Living Alone
Being single in retirement means handling everything myself. Surprisingly, that may be one of the reasons I'm thriving.
The End of Checklist Travel
Harborside cafés, slow afternoons, and wandering unfamiliar streets are starting to matter more to me than checking famous sights off a list.
Retirement is more like cooking than math
Learning to cook Indian food reminded me that retirement may be less about following the perfect formula and more about trusting yourself to adjust along the way.
Why “Enjoy Retirement” Feels Almost Irresponsible Now
I grew up believing retirement was the reward for decades of responsibility and planning. Now, even after preparing carefully, it can feel almost irresponsible to simply enjoy it.
The Shifting Goalposts
From retirement savings to cholesterol targets, I’m learning that chasing numbers can become a habit—and that “good enough” may be a healthier goal.
Homeowner for Life?
A year into retirement, I’m realizing that my paid-off house is one of my biggest expenses—and one of my least flexible assets.
Without a Scorecard
For decades I measured myself against expectations — work, productivity, improvement. In retirement I’m learning what it means to live well without a scorecard.
Flipping the Switch
The math said I was ready. The emotions took a little longer to catch up.
Finding My Pace at Sea
Longer cruises promised rest and ease. What they really taught me was that even in retirement, knowing my pace matters.