AI After Productivity
AI can write emails, summarize books, and draft blog posts. I don't ask it to do any of those things. Here's why—and where it has earned a permanent place in my life instead.
The Unexpected Gift of Living Alone
Being single in retirement means handling everything myself. Surprisingly, that may be one of the reasons I'm thriving.
The End of Checklist Travel
Harborside cafés, slow afternoons, and wandering unfamiliar streets are starting to matter more to me than checking famous sights off a list.
Retirement is more like cooking than math
Learning to cook Indian food reminded me that retirement may be less about following the perfect formula and more about trusting yourself to adjust along the way.
Why “Enjoy Retirement” Feels Almost Irresponsible Now
I grew up believing retirement was the reward for decades of responsibility and planning. Now, even after preparing carefully, it can feel almost irresponsible to simply enjoy it.
Without a Scorecard
For decades I measured myself against expectations — work, productivity, improvement. In retirement I’m learning what it means to live well without a scorecard.
Making My World Smaller
January wasn’t about hiding from life. It was about pulling back—on purpose—to rebuild habits that needed quiet to take root.
When Friendship Stops Being Automatic
Work made friendship easy. Retirement made it intentional—and forced me to notice who shows up, and how much effort connection really takes.
The Day After the Last Day
Retirement came with a hard realization: nobody needed me anymore. And I wasn’t prepared for how much that would shake me.